My Princeton Farewell Talk

I gave my last talk (at least for the next two years) in my Princeton, New Jersey Ward this Sunday.  The topic was a challenging one for me, but I learned so much in preparing for this talk.  The topic was Death and Resurrection.

I know it's a long talk, but if you have a moment, take the time to read my talk for yourself.  It's posted below.

"Good morning Brothers and Sisters.  Every time I come home, there are always new faces.  For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Sean Edwards.  I’ve spent the past 5 years living in Provo, Utah.  I spent this past year doing my first year of teaching at Timpview High School, which is where our very own Brother Draper went to school.  I taught a severe Special Education class as well as Peer Tutoring classes.

    Just before graduating from BYU in 2010, I was trying to decide where to live, what I wanted my next step to be.  I was very interested in moving to Las Vegas.  They pay teachers well and I was looking into graduate programs at UNLV.  While my Dad and I were out looking at houses with a real estate agent, I said to my Dad, “Our whole family should just move here!”  My Dad quickly responded by saying, “I will never bring Mom, Krista, and Elaine back here.  This place is a cesspool of sin!”  … Fast forward to May 2011.  I open my mission call.  And, I read that I will be serving in the Nevada Las Vegas Mission!  My Dad was so excited.  He kept saying, “Vegas!  That is so great.  I can’t think of a more perfect place for you to be!”  I feel like I’m getting mixed messages.

Well, I have been anticipating this talk for a long time, and when I was told that the topic I was to speak about would be death, I thought about a couple of things.  The first thing that came to mind was, “Oh, my mission covers Death Valley!  Wait, I wonder if this is personal revelation on exactly where I will be serving.”  Then, I thought “Great, I’m going to make my whole home ward depressed and sad right before I leave for two years, and I won’t get any letters from them!”  But, that’s the tricky thing about death.  Death can be very tragic and sad, but there is a silver lining.  It doesn’t have to be completely sad.  Not all is lost.

Death is not the end.  It’s the beginning of a beautiful, brand new chapter in Heavenly Father’s plan for us.  Our physical bodies must die in order for us to return to our Father in Heaven, Savior, and loved ones that passed before us.  As difficult as death is, it is a necessary part of God’s plan of salvation for us.

The death that I want to focus on is that of our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ.  We can learn so much about the Plan of Salvation through Christ’s death and life after death.

Before the death of Christ, He went through the Garden of Gethsemane to fulfill the Atonement.  We learn in 2 Nephi 9: 21, that Christ suffered “the pains of all men, yea the pains of every living creature, both men, women, and children.”  Mosiah 3:7 tells us that while in Gethsemane “Christ shall suffer temptations, and pain of body, hunger, thirst, and fatigue, even more than man can suffer…for behold, blood cometh from every pore.”  The Atonement becomes a pinnacle to our faith, because it is through the Atonement that we can be resurrected.  It is through the Atonement that we can repent and be forgiven of our sins.  It is through the Atonement that we can one day return to our eternal home.  The Atonement has been a blessing in my life.  No matter who we are, we all need the blessings of peace and strength the Atonement offers us.  It is because of the Atonement that I had the opportunity to humble myself and repent of my sins, and it is because of the Atonement that I have been forgiven by my Father in Heaven.

After Christ’s death, there were three days before His return to Earth.  What was He doing?  Well, we learn in Doctrine and Covenants 138 verse 30, that Christ preached the gospel to the dead.  Ray L. Huntington and Camille Fronk have an article in the January 1999 issue of The Ensign.  They say of the three days Christ’s physical body was in the tomb, “While darkness reigned figuratively and literally on the earth with the death of Jesus, it had never been so light in the spirit world. Those spirits of the just had “countenances [that] shone, and the radiance from the presence of the Lord rested upon them, and they sang praises unto his holy name”

The knowledge of Christ’s ministry in the Spirit World after His death means the world to me.  My cousin and best friend, Jace Davis, was serving his mission in Romania when he passed away in January of 2010.  Jace was valedictorian of his high school, tennis star, and loved by everyone.  His premature death was extremely hard on our whole family.

I have always felt a love for President Hinckley because he was the prophet for most of my life.  He and I even shared the same birthday. I had the great privilege of seeing him in person many times at general conference.  I also had the sacred opportunity of seeing him during a viewing at his funeral.  He wrote the following poem about his wife after she passed away.  I read this poem in an Ensign the day after my cousin died.

It is titled:

What is This Thing That Men Call Death

By President Gordon B. Hinckley  (1910-2008)

What is this thing that men call death,
This quiet passing in the night?
‘Tis not the end, but genesis
Of better worlds and greater light.

O God, touch Thou my aching heart,
And calm my troubled, haunting fears.
Let hope and faith, transcendent, pure,
Give strength and peace beyond my tears.

There is no death, but only change
With recompense for victory won;
The gift of Him who loved all men,
The Son of God, the Holy One.

Jace had everything going for him here on Earth, but he had a much more important calling to fulfill.  I have been so grateful for the peace that I have felt, knowing that Jace was needed by the Lord to minister to those in another world. There is a scripture on my cousin’s gravestone.

It is 3 Nephi 5:13 “Behold, I am a disciple of Jesus Christ, the Son of God.  I have been called of him to declare his word among his people, that they might have everlasting life.” I am so happy to know that Jace is still fulfilling his mission.  The truth we know about death and resurrection allow us to know that our loved ones are being taken care of by our Heavenly Father, and someday we will be with them again.

The Resurrection is commonly known as Christ’s “victory over death.”  And, it is a victory.  We also have the gift to overcome death.  Everyone who dies a physical death will receive a complete Resurrection and restoration of soul and body.

After Christ’s return to Earth, he appeared to the people of the Americas.  We read in 3 Nephi 11, that as the people looked up, “they saw a Man descending out of heaven; and he was clothed in a white robe; and he came down and stood in the midst of them…he stretched forth his hand and spake unto the people, saying: Behold, I am Jesus Christ.”  He invites each person to come up one by one and touch His wounds.

“Arise and come forth unto me, that ye may thrust your hands into my side, and also that ye may feel the prints of the nails in my hands and in my feet, that ye may know that I am the God of Israel, and the God of the whole earth, and have been slain for the sins of the world.” (3 Nephi 11:14)

“And it came to pass that the multitude went forth and thrust their hands into his side, and did feel the prints of the nails in his hands and in his feet; and this they did do, going forth one by one until they had all gone forth, and did see with their eyes and did feel with their hands and did know of a surety and did bear record, that it was he. For whom it was written by the prophets, that should come.”

Just as Christ did in ancient times, as a missionary, I will have the amazing opportunity to continue to ask people to find out for themselves, one by one about Christ.  Although they will not be able to physically touch his wounds, I know through the Holy Ghost, they will be able to spiritually feel his wounds and experience the blessings of knowing his love for them.

We are still asked to come one by one and use the Atonement in our lives to gain forgiveness of our sins and ask him to help us carry our burdens.  Forgiveness of our sins will help bring us peace, and His help in carrying our burdens will help bring us strength.  It is through the peaceful and strengthening events in my life that that I am able to serve a mission.  As a missionary, I will be teaching about how the resurrected Christ can help individuals to live happier lives and gain exaltation.

Brothers and sisters, death can be very difficult, confusing, and sad.  But, it doesn’t have to be completely devastating.  Remember the silver lining.  Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “When it is dark enough you can see the stars.”  I remember going camping with my Dad in Arizona in the desert.  In this darkness, we could see hundreds of beautiful stars.  Death can be a very dark time, even for those who understand the plan of salvation.  However, infused in the dark, we will see beautiful stars. Remember that because of Christ’s victory over death, we can all have our own victory over death.  With the Atonement and Resurrection, we can return to live with our family members and Father in Heaven with our Savior by His side.

I love this quote by Elder Holland about the resurrected Christ:

“On that first Resurrection Sunday, Mary Magdalene first thought she saw a gardener.  Well, she did, the Gardener who cultivated Eden and who endured Gethsemane.  The Gardener who gave us the rose of Sharon, the lily of the valley, the cedars of Lebanon, the tree of life.”

Just last week I had the opportunity to go to the John Johnson Farm in Hiram, Ohio with my Mom and Krista.  It was in this very house that Joseph Smith had the vision found in Doctrine and Covenants 76.

    “…the Lord touched the eyes of our understandings and they were opened, and the glory of the Lord shone round about.  And we beheld the glory of the Son, on the right hand of the Father, and received of his fulness; And saw the holy angels, and them who are sanctified before his throne, worshiping God, and the Lamb, who worship him forever and ever.  And now, after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives!”

I am so excited to have the opportunity to commit two years of my life to sharing with people the thing that I hold most precious to my heart, that is my Testimony and love for the gospel.

I know this Church is true.  I know that President Monson is a modern day Prophet, and he receives revelation for the Church.  I know the Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ.  I know that if we desire to do good, the Lord will look upon our hearts and help us make the right decisions.  I know that death is an integral part of the Plan of Salvation, and that if we humbly come to our Father in Heaven with concerns and questions about death, he will comfort us and disperse our fears and worries.  I know because Christ was resurrected, we will also be resurrected.

I leave these things with you and say these things in the name of Jesus Christ,

Amen."

Thank you so much for reading this.  I hope you got something from it.

Love,
Sean

The Importance Of Our Talents

The other day, I was reading in The Book of Mormon in Ether 12.  In verse 35 it reads, "...if the Gentiles have not charity, because of our weakness, that thou wilt prove them, and take away their talent, yea, even that which they have received, and give unto them who shall have more abundantly."

This lead me to think that maybe our talents are not just given to us to make us "special."  I believe we were given specific talents so that we can use our gifts to help others.  If we are not charitable, then we are not using our talents in the way the Lord would have us use them, and so they will be taken away.

Just a thought.

Love,
Sean

Gathering My Thoughts

Okay, I just finished reading in The Book of Mormon, Ether Chapter 7.  Please excuse me while I think, no, type-out-loud.

Orihah is king.  Then, his son Kib became king.  Kib had a son, Corihor, who rebelled and gained followers.  Corihor captured the king (his father, Kib).  Kib had another son, Shule.  Shule was not happy with his brother Corihor, so Shule and Corihor battled.  Shule won, released his father Kib, and Kib was king again.  Kib gave the kingdom to his son Shule.  Corihor's became good.  Corihor's son, Noah, rebelled against Shule.  Noah and Shule battled.  Noah gained some land.  The sons of Shule killed Noah.  Noah's son, Cohor, NOT Corihor, ruled part of the land, and Shule ruled the other part.  Shule killed Cohor in battle.  Cohor's son, Nimrod, gave Shule the part of the land that Noah and Cohor ruled. 

...Sounds like quite the family fued.

I really liked Ether 7:13.  It reads, "And Corihor repented of the many evils which he had done; wherefore Shule gave him power in his kingdom."

I really liked this verse because even though Corihor had rebelled and betrayed his family, his brother still found it in his heart to forgive him and even give him "power" in the kingdom.  And, I really like this verse even more because it's written like, "Oh yeah, Corihor repented, and Shule forgave him easily and it was no big deal."  I think that's how we need to be about forgiveness sometimes.  People make mistakes, big ones, and if we are easy to forgive, I believe we are becoming more like our Savior.

Just something to think about.

Love,
Sean

A Story About Good

So, the other day I was reading in The Book of Mormon in the Book of Ether.  In Chapter 4 verse 12, the Lord says that "whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do good is of me..."

I thought this was the perfect way to define His gospel...Anything that persuades, convinces, or advertises GOOD.

Then I got to thinking, "Doesn't the word 'gospel' mean GOOD news?"  Well, it does.  Isn't that interesting?  I thought that said a lot.

I like good.

Love,
Sean

5 Scriptures That Will Get You Through Almost Anything

I had the opportunity to listen to popular Mormon author and motivational speaker John Bytheway speak a few days ago.  The talk he gave was the same one he gave to the students of the Columbine High School shootings after the tragic incident.  He titled it, "5 Scriptures That Will Get You Through Almost Anything".

He started out by stating that we don't want any false scripts.  We want sure scripts...ScriptSURES.  I thought that was pretty clever haha.

Here are the 5 Scriptures:

1) 1st Nephi 11:16-17.  Bytheway said that the first thing to realize is that we do not know the meaning of all things, but the one thing that we MUST know is that God "loveth His children."

2) Moses 7:26-30.  In this selection of scriptures, it states that God weeps.  We learn from this that God IS affected by the events that happen here on Earth.  People may ask, "Why would God allow this tragedy/temptation/sickness/etc. happen?" ... We must all face affliction on Earth.  But, do not think for a moment that God does not care...He IS affected by what happens in our mortal life.

3) Alma 14:9-13.  In verse 13, Alma says, "...behold, our work is not finished".  Bytheway said that similarly, the horrible things that we go through here is not the end.  We must not let this tragedy/temptation/sickness/affliction define us.

4) Alma 7:12.  From this scripture we learn that our Savior did not just die for our sins, He also died for our pains, afflictions, temptations, sicknessnesses, weaknesses, etc.

5)  Doctrine And Covenants 101: 32-34, 36.  Our joy is not fulfilled through the world.  Our joy is fulfilled through the Lord.  Bytheway ended by stating that his talk is called, "5 Scriptures That Will Get You Through Almost Anything," but it is God and our Savior that WILL get us through EVERYTHING.

I really feel that Bytheway was right...These are 5 very important scriptures that we can all learn a lot from.  I wanted to make sure I shared this with all my readers, and I hope it could help you in the same way it helped me.  It's always a good for me to be reminded that I am always loved.

Love,
Sean

A Text From My Bed

So...I texted my update last night and it didn't really work out, so I am updating it now.

Here is what my text reads...

I am too lazy to get out of bed and grab my computer so this update wil be posted via text message (which didn't work haha).

I just finished reading 3 Nephi Chapter 19.  I really liked verse 23 where Christ is praying to Heavenly Father saying:
"And now Father, I pray unto thee for them, and also for all those who shall believe on their words, that they may believe in me, that I may be in them as thou Father, art in me, that we may be one."

Isn't that cool?  We have the power to allow Christ to be in us, to be part of us.

Love,
Sean

So Inviting

Tonight I read 3 Nephi Chapter 18.  In verse 25 Christ says:
"And ye see that I have commanded that none of you should go away, but rather have commanded that ye should come unto me..."

This passage makes me so happy.  I believe everyone has a desire to feel wanted and accepted, and if there is ever a time when you do not feel wanted, just remember that Christ COMMANDED us to come to Him.  He didn't ask us, He didn't persuade us, He didn't tell us....He commanded us.  There is so much power in that word.

Love,
Sean

A Link To General Conference

So, I am sitting on my couch and I just finished my scripture reading for tonight.  I read in The Book of Mormon, 3 Nephi Chapter 17.  This has got to be one of my most FAVORITE chapters in the whole book...And I'm sure I will be speaking more of the reason why in a later blog post.

But for tonight, I was reading along, and read in verses 2 and 3,
"I perceive that ye are weak, that ye cannot understand all my words..."
"Therefore, go ye unto your homes, and ponder upon the things which I have said, and ask of the Father, in my name, that ye may understand, and prepare your minds..."

This made me think right back to General Conference this past weekend.  Did General Conference tucker me out?  For sure it did!

Did I listen to General Conference?  Yes.

Can I do better at diving deeper so that I may make associations and connections to what was said in conference to my own life?  You bet.

Even though Conference is over...It's not really "Over."  These verses just reminded me that to really follow through with the revelation we were given during Conference, I am going to need to ponder and pray.

But for now...Bed.

Love,
Sean